I have decided to write this article about spells, hexes, voodoo, hoodoo, black magic because every month I receive phone calls from people who are afraid that someone has done a spell on them or their boyfriend/girlfriend or are considering doing a love spell to bend the will of the person that they want to be with. While my position is to not talk negatively about spells I wanted to create a venue for my clients to have methods to remove negativity, curses and ill advised spells done against them or their circumstance.
My belief is that thoughts are things and thoughts and intentions can be sent to other people and situations through the airwaves using telepathy, will or intention. Whether you receive this ill will is up to your own free will choice. If you sense or know for a fact that someone has done a curse against you or sent you ill will or negative thoughts you do not have to accept the negativity. These curses and spells only work if the person they are being directed to is down in nature, feeling negative anyway, perhaps having some health challenges and feeling more mentally and emotionally vulnerable. The best way to deal with unwanted or unwarranted curses and/or spells against you is to ignore it and think and act as positively as you can. This will block the negative vibrations. However, I believe that the hex, curse or spell isn't your problem but your own inner fears about yourself, your life or your circumstance or situation.
For those that are doing love spells to bring a specific person back to you you might think why you feel that you need to bend another persons will for your own satisfaction. This is a very deep and complex subject like love always is. I feel that prayer is a positive way to "ask" that you be reunited with the person always ending in "the highest and best" for all parties. Specific love spells like you see on the internet to bring your lover back to you and to remove a curse off of you for the most part is a scam and very unhealthy for you to participate in.
If you want to reunite with a person you can go to the prayer page on this webpage for a prayer for reuniting. Reuniting with someone you have lost is complicated in that you have to peel back the layers of why you split up in the first place and why do you have a need to force an issue that may or may not be for the highest good for both of you. Again, I am not wanting to take a negative stance on love spells but I get dozens of calls from people who have ordered them and then have a psychic reading to see if they are working, so I tread softly on this subject.
To those talking to psychics that are telling you that someone has put a curse on you please use good judgment in this matter. While family and ancestral lines can have curses that flow through the generations the removal of sorts that you are seeing on the internet is a way to get money from you. Again, no disrespect to other people in the industry who earn their living doing this but from my side of the fence living as positive of a life as you can will ward off negativity and prevent you from being vulnerable to psychic attack or curse attack should it be real or imagined or for profit.
Through our subtle bodies blockages can be created if you are being traumatized by spiritual warfare, possession, lifetime mindsets and problems. They have many different names for these problems-implants, devices, vibration barriers, curses, and blockages. Although they work in many different ways and cause many different problems they all act as an unconscious channel of negative energy into a persons life. They represent karmic ties and associations that need to heal. We are all living under some kind of blockage like this. If you have had a lifetime of bad luck, you feel someone has placed a curse upon you change your attitude and you will not only change your life but your life will get better. Remember, the more positive things that you can create in your life raise your vibration and a higher vibration attracts more positive things and circumstances to you.
I had another call yesterday while writing this article. A woman who was down on her luck had phoned several people who told her that she had a curse on her and for a fee they would remove the blockages and negative energy from her so she could have the things that she desired in life. In reviewing her situation I found her to not be living up to who she really was and who she really is. She had had a serious breakup with a boyfriend and was grieving. In that grief she let all other areas of her life slip, stopped paying bills, was late for work, got her car repossessed for non-payment. When you don't tend after yourself and your life all of these things create negativity. You have it within your power to remove the negativity yourself by getting back to your core self, your core values, paying your bills, being a good steward at work. All of these daily things and habits create positive vibrations.
Ways to Remove Negativity
Negativity Within Yourself
Negativity feeds on fear and anxiety so try to focus on the things that you want to do versus all of the things that you don't have. Your own thoughts create your reality so make a list of the positive things that you do have in your life, what are some positive actions you could be taking every day....that includes walks out in the fresh air to clean your energetic field, having lunch with a good and trusted friend, making plans to achieve something that you have have dreamed of, meditating, saying prayers to connect to the Divine, reading inspirational books. Every day do something uplifting for your own Spirit and Soul. The negativity starts within then radiates outward to attract negative events to you so clean up your own inner house first. Be the master of your own destiny.
Negativity Within Your Relationships
Minimize toxic relationships by changing your own attitude and your own way of dealing with the person first. While this one is a little tricky if you are married or in a long term relationships by changing how you deal with the person or the crisis that is created by the toxic relationship you can become healthier and more positive in the relationships. While you cannot change the other person you can read books on toxic relationships and you can control the hot buttons that consistently create challenges between you and your mate. Set healthier boundaries for yourself. Make a list of what is acceptable to you and what is not acceptable to you. Be a seeker of being around positive people, high vibration people. The more you are around negative people the less time you have to be around negative people who bring you down. Set boundaries with the negative people in your life.
Negativity Within Your Environment
Does your living space reflect your inner turmoil by being cluttery, messy or not appealing to the eye? Clean up your living space to reflect what you are wanting in your outer life. Clean those closets, excessive clutter attracts negativity. If you are on limited funds, designate a space in a room and make that little old space beautiful with things and items that uplift you or that you think are beautiful. Do you need to spruce up your appearance or get rid of old clothes that are bogging you down. Make way for the new by cleaning your home and take stock of your physical appearance and make uplifting changes to increase your self confidence. Get involved with your community where you live. Volunteer and get involved with your neighbors, when you go to work be a positive and upbeat person and create by your attitude positive energy in your office environment. You can not only raise your own vibration but you can raise the vibration of those who come around you. You can not only be your own blessing but a blessing to others.
Accept Personal Responsibility For Yourself First
Stop the blame game and projecting and/or blaming other people for your misfortune or unhappiness. If you are not happy - change it! By changing your circumstances and choosing happiness versus unhappiness it can act like a catalyst to get you back into the positive mainstream of life. Even small steps of taking notice of your negative thoughts, journaling and becoming aware on a daily basis of what you are thinking about can lead you to a more fulfilling and happier life by switching those negative mindsets to more uplifting ones that will assist you in creating the abundance and the love that you desire. If you are grieving over a love relationship, loss of job or financial ruin take those baby steps in rebuilding your life. If you are waiting endlessly for a lover to return, put a time limit on how long you are going to wait before you open that door to the house of love and begin the journey of attracting and finding new love.
Spirituality, Meditation, Prayer
If you life has gotten so low that you feel helpless or isolated in turning it around then pray, meditate, surround yourself with your guardian angels. With so much information on the internet today be a seeker of inspirational prayers, informative articles on how to meditate. Keep positive and uplifting books of hope and inspiration by your bed. Pray for protection that all negativity and negative thought-forms will be prevented from permeating your aura. Connect to the higher part of you - your Spirit that houses all of the most glorious and uplifting ideas and concepts of who you really are versus who you think you are or who you became of life circumstances. Get back to your core values. Select a time in your life when you had it all - how did you look, how did you feel, what were you doing, how were you acting. Prayer is the number one way to uplift yourself immediately and the number one way to ask the higher power that you call upon to surround you with protection from all known or unknown negative energies and negative thought forms from other people. Pray for protection from all evil spirits, negative thought-forms. For prayers that you can use go to: www.affordablepsychicreadings.com/prayers.html
While there are many methods to remove a curse if you feel that someone has put a curse on you the number #1 most important thing for you to do immediately is to raise your vibrational frequency so negative energy can no longer rule your life or specific situation. When it comes to removing a curse I believe that the most effective long term solution to clearing a curse, jinx or getting past a series of potholes in your life is changing your attitude. Are you coming from a foundation of fear, frustration, are you surrounding yourself with negative people, are you involved in negative circumstances. Cleaning up your own life and making it more positive in all areas raises your vibrational frequency therefore attracting less negativity and attracting more positive circumstances and situations in your life. While this can take time everyday raise your "positive" vibration by doing small things - thinking more positively, thinking more optimistically, eating balanced meals, getting outside for fresh air and recreation, surrounding yourself with loving people and partners. Anything positive that you can do will raise that vibration frequency and get your life going in a more positive direction.
the purpose and value in your challenges, learning to laugh at yourself and to be grateful, to appreciate your life as it is... Easier said than done, I know... but when you lose the victim in you and decide to take control in a most loving non-judgmental way, you take the first steps to disempowering any curse that might be at work on your life.
If you feel your ancestral line may have a curse placed on it or if a past life may be interfering with your current life that is a whole other form from being sent negative garbage or trying to negatively be controlled by another person for your ill will. If you feel your ancestral line may have a curse on it, in other words, everyone in the family or one specific sex has lived similar lives please feel free to email me and I will share with you methods that you can have that removed.
What you put out comes back to you so give to others, love well, tend after your flock well, make as wise of decisions as you possibly can. If you are in debts, pay off your bills. If you are unlucky with love confront why and identify any "love" patterns that are self defeating or self destructive. Take good care of yourself.
In closing, this article and this page came out of a result of receiving so many phone calls and email's saying that they had been bilked out of alot of money because they were told they had a curse on them or guaranteed that they could reunite them with a person they still love. I intend no disrespect to the honorable people who are trying to assist humanity in an ethical manner but I do take stance with people who have brought harm to my clients..
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