Ahhhhh.....those lazy warm afternoon Saturday's sitting by the lake or the ocean, dreaming of love, perfect love when all of a sudden you notice you are sitting alone and the love in your heart and mind are just that - in your heart and mind! Summer time brings renewed strength to our spirit and soul's, the heat relaxes every muscle of our being and the sun ray's balance our chakras putting in perfect balance with the earth, ourselves and those around us. The summer time is the perfect time to be on the alert for love. More people are outside in the summer time thereby increasing your odds of meeting someone suitable to date and eventually fall in love with. Don't waste precious time by staying indoors. Join groups of people, grab a friend and run to the ocean. Summer is telling us to be with people OUTSIDE! Every time you go out and socialize you increase your odd's of meeting someone by 65%.
Being outside is therapeutic and healing. The fresh air and the sun beating down on our bones heal and cleanses our aura's. If you spend too much time indoors and are looking for love this is the season to get out those flip flops and hit the road. If you are alone summer is a perfect time to go to the beach or a pretty lake. Make friends. Those that have the easiest time in love are those that are leading fulfilling lives on their own.
Summer is a perfect time to meet people, date and fall in love. You can facilitate and manifest all three but it will depend on lightening your mood, concentrating more on having fun versus "looking" seriously for that lifetime partner. Get a tan, go to a tanning salon, wear different colors, do things that you have never done before - skydiving, water skiing, join a hiking club, take a trip to an exotic climate. Being active and being outdoors stimulates the mind.
Don't specifically go out with the mindset - "I am only going out to meet Mr/Ms Right. Wrong attitude and wrong approach. Go out with the attitude I am going to go out and have fun, get some healthy fresh air and be open to meeting suitable people. Your sweetie will show up when you least expect it but you increase your odd's by merely being outside and around other people socially. Unplanned things can bring the most surprising results and hey, you are having a little fun and getting away from the boredoms and every day same-o same-o. If you get too seriously focused on meeting just "one" perfect person nine other people that could make you happy could walk right past you. Focus first on making yourself happy, increasing your odds of finding love by being available and going where other people looking for love may go.
If you are waiting to reunite with someone atleast try to get out and meet and greet new possibilities for yourself. It doesn't mean that you have to give up the other person quite yet but...hey, it's Summer and life is suppose to be somewhat happy with a smattering of nice moments throughout your days. If you are in grieving mode over a lost love then instead of concentrating on finding another love why don't you take a Summer break and just create as many as meaningful and fun events as you can. Call up an old friend that you haven't seen for ages and pack a mini-picnic, perhaps a bottle of wine and sit by the sea shore or beautiful tranquil lake. Life is meant to be meaningful and pleasant most days but our days end up that way because of our intention and actions to make them that way.
Try new things - how about going on a canoe ride, mix up your activities and go where the "datables" are. Those that seem to have the most luck (okay, we make our own "luck") are those who concentrate on living fulfilling lives inspite of the things that they desire. Those are mileposts, goals so to speak so grab the sunscreen and have a little fun while looking for a suitable person to spend the Summer months with. Where do the "datables" go and hang out in the Summer - the beach, playing volleyball, seaside/lakeside,ocean restaurants and bars, sitting outside at coffee houses, outdoor concerts, bike trails, walking trails, hiking...the list is endless.
Happy Summer to you all.....remember that love is on every street corner, at every beach and most importantly in your heart. Don't give up hope but persevere, stay focused, mingle and meet new people.