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Online Dating
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Use technology to your advantage. Online dating is now used by one in five people to meet appropriate people to date. I have heard alot of success stories from those who use online dating wisely understanding that it is a game of numbers. Following are some guidelines and food for thought for a terrific and quick way to rule them in rule them out and get on with your love life in a positive way.
Online dating has created a new age of romance that makes it entirely possible to find a great partner in just a few months. You are no longer constricted by making time to go out and socialize, knowing where to go to meet appropriate people but you can facilitate this process of finding true love right from your home. Online dating also gives you variety. Have fun with this type of dating and get going, if you have not already started the process of finding love online on dating sites. Online dating is a tool that gives you power and control. It is a practice ground of dating so to speak - looking for a longterm relationship, more then one person to date at one time, which is recommended or a quick pick me up when you are inbetween people to focus on.
Rule number one in successfully using online dating as your main source of meeting attractive and appropriate people is to know how to work it. Make the most of your online dating experience and avoid the pitfalls of becoming discouraged. Following is great secrets of online success.
Statistics have shown that many of the dating sites that have personality tests are not effective in matching you up with the right person so don't get discouraged is rule number one. Be of a light-hearted nature and make a concious decision to have fun with this process. Don't use just one site. There are many dating sites. Explore your options with several sites and see which ones are giving you the best results. In other words - don't put all of your eggs in one basket. To gain the greatest success you will need to go through quick alot of potential "duds" to find just the right person so create a plan on how you can as quickly as possible get through the "duds" on to a person that really will fit your bill.
Your photo is everything! According to Match.com men are fourteen times more likely to look at a profile that has a photo. This visual-scanning behavior is based on a man's biology. Put time and attention in your photo. You want a great headshot with no one else in the photo. Find your signature look: the hair, makeup, and clothing that make you pop. You can only be so glam it up a bit but stay true to the essence of who you really are. Do not use a picture taken many years ago when you were thinner or younger. That is the number one complaint on dating sites when a picture attracts someone then they meet the person they don't look anything like their photo. Take what you've got and glam it up a bit but be real! Optimize your hair and get your makeup done so that you look and feel your best. Find a flattering top that has a scoop neckline. You want to show a little skin but please no sexy or revealing shots as this is a turn off and instantly forms an opinion of the type of person you may or may not be. Have a friend take over a 100 shots of you in all different poses. Out of 100 you will find one that will capture your true essence. If you use a professional photographer make sure your photo looks casual. Make your photo warm and inviting. Take a second or third picture that shows you in your element - while hiking, biking, gardening, etc. Take some full body shots that are flattering to your figure. Now that you have a total of three different shots of you notice how many responses you get. Play around with your profile. You can always remove pictures and add them back so see which ones are bringing you the higher return.
To differentiate yourself from all of the other people put time and attention into your screen name, headline and profile. They have to be real, upbeat and clever representation of who you are. Ask two of your best friends to write up a one-paragraph description of you, highlighting your unique and wonderful qualities. You will work off that assignment to create a true to life uplifting verbage about yourself. Use screen names that give people a vivid picture of your personality - BubblyBrit, RioGirlinNYC. You can use screen names that appeal to specific types of people - ILuvEntrepeneurs or MatchPointMatch. Avoide at all costs defensive, kooky or negative monikers or anything to do with eye color, being "sweet" or any of the other trite and boring names or headlines you see over and over. Do not be too sexy in your screen name.
For your headline, write a sentence that showcases you and basically restates your love intention, but phrased in the third person. Avoid simply restating what you put in your screen name or indicating you that are fun and ready for a good time - that will attract to you people who are not interested in a relationship. For your profile, start by working off your friends' write-ups. Be honest and lead with your most inviting qualities. Are you funny? A people person? Write about it. Then throw in some quirky, endearing or funny speviics. For example you can say that you are crossword puzzle nut or you love music from the eighties. List your interest that men would be likely to share.
Now, describing your ideal match - less is more! When you write about an ideal match, make it short and general. less is more - you don't want the person feeling like they can't measure up to a long list of qualities. You want to cast a wide net to capture people who are interested and then you do the picking and choosing. When you do start sorting through your responses, you can then choose people whose profiles indicate that they are in the correct age range, successful and looking for a long-term relationship.
How many sites to use? It is best and works more efficiently if you are a paid subscriber on two sites - one large site, such as Match, Eharmony, or Yahoo Personals and one specialized site like JDate, Christianmingle.com or Blacksingles.com. Go with your intuition in picking a site.
Master the search-engine secrets that get more results. A highly ranked profile can increase your visibility and generate more responses. On a number of sites recently updated profiles are ranked higher. You don't have to do much to qualify. You can just tweak your info, changing your ideal first date or hobby frequently. On some sites, you will come up as "new" all over again if you simply delete a sentence in your profile and then replace it. On some sites like JDate.com you have to log on repeatedly to show up in the most active searches list. Logging on in the morning and leaving the computer on all day will net you more men by the evening. On those sites, trade emails with friends to boost your activity level. Experiment with these techniques when you log on to other sites as well. On others, including eHarmony, if you don't like your yield, complain to customer service and they will send you more matches.
Create your own form to fill out. Include on this form at the top of the page a description of the ideal person you would like to attract. Make a checklist of what is important to you, traits you would like the person to have, professional and financial criteria, etc. When you meet someone fill out a card or a sheet on that person. This keeps you thinking along the lines of looking for an ideal person versus getting the people mixed up that you have spoken with. It also keeps your goal fresh and in front of you so you don't become weak and settle for less out of desperation. In online dating it is all about numbers - attracting as many people possible, staying focused on your goal of what type of person you would like to date, having a program in place where you make a decision how many emails or phone calls you will be willing to exchange with the person before meeting face to face with them. This is like a business plan. The more organized effort you put into it the better luck you will have.
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DATING SITES
MillionMatch.com
Dating site for successful singles and admirers.
eHarmony.com
Trusted dating site that has been around a longtime.
LargeFriends.com
Dating site for plus-size people.
MuslimFriends.com
Muslim matrimonial and dating site.
ChurchFriends.com
For religious friends and singles.
EbonyFriends.com
African American dating site.
AgeMatch.com
For intergenerational dating.
MilitaryFriends.com
For military singles and friends.
LatinFriends.com
For Latin/Hispanic singles.
SeniorMatch.com
For senior singles.
EquestrianCupid.com
For horse lover singles.
FitKiss.com
For singles interested in sports, fitness and a active lifestyle.
Petsfriends.com
Dating site for pet lovers.
CatholicCupid.com
For Catholic singles
BaptistFriends.com
For Baptist singles.
GreenFriends.com
For singles who are vegetarian, animal rights, peace, environment.
SingleParentMatch.com
For single parents.
TallFriends.com
For Tall people.
AsianChats.com
For Asian singles
Zoosk.com
Large 50+ million subscribers.
Match.com
Large established dating site.
PlentyofFish.com
Free dating site.
OKCupid.com
Free dating site.
LoveAwake.com
Free Canadian dating site.
TableForSix.com
Los Angeles, CA dating site.
CougarLife.com
Where Cougar's can meet younger partners.
Singlesnet.com
Free dating site for singles.
SpeedDate.com
Try speed dating versus online matchmaking.
JumpDates.com
Free dating site and online personal ads.
LuvFree.com
Free dating site, see descriptions at no cost.
Cupid.com
Find local singles.
JackFoundJill.com
Local and national singles.
AshleyMadison.com
For those looking for an extra-marital affair.
SugarDaddie.com
For those singles looking for money and love.
Chemistry.com
Looking for local singles and fun.
HelloJackieJoe.com
Friends promote you to other available singles.
VIPsingles.com
Meet singles 35+ who are successful.
NoLongerLonely.com
Online social community for adults with mental illness.
ChristianCafe.com
Long-running Christian dating site.
PerfectMatch.com
Uses the Duet Compatability system.
MatchMaker.com
The oldest dating site on the internet. You can sign up by the city.
LavaLife.com
Easy to use website, payment options are flexible.
True.com
Screens all applicants w/criminal background checks.
Date.com
Fun site, easy to use.
AmericanSingles.com
The second most popular dating site.
JewishMatches.com
Meet Jewish singles.
MatureSinglesOnly.com
Online dating site for people 40+.
