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We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty. 
Maya Angelou

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Your TrueLove Is Not a Mindreader

Relationships can tilt a bit, become confusing and be a breeding ground for constant chaos, unhappiness and no one getting their needs met.

If your partner is making you unhappy try writing down what action he/she is doing that is upsetting you and how it makes you feel. Do not give your partner this sheet of paper. This is to help you become organized in your thinking as to what the real issue is and also to come up with viable solutions for both of you.

Once you have clarified to yourself what you would need in order to be comfortable approach your partner. Don't ask for some big meeting or "talk" as everyone knows that when you are in a relationship and one person needs to have "the talk" it isn't going to be good.

Organically, mention your concern at a non-stress time or when you see your partner in a relaxed mood and then bring it up softly. If you talk in terms of how something makes you feel it is more challenging for the other person to become defensive or say "no" just as a defense to get the conversation to end.

Don't overdo this but at the same time learning how to communicate in a grounded way and not being accusatory can be very helpful. If you don't share things with your partner they have no way of knowing other then you shutting down emotionally and heaven forbid the rolling of the eyes in which we all dislike.

​Love is complicated. Don't expect more then what you are willing to give. When things go wrong control your emotions until you can rationally and calmly review the situation and strategize the best way to love your partner while also being happy in the relationship as well.

Love Isn't Love Until It Is Given Away​
For this one moment in life, for this one day in life, give love with whom you come into contact with today. Watch the love multiply and come back to you through kind words, a kiss on the cheek or a thoughtful look from those that you love. You give to receive.​​
What Will You Choose in 2019?

Like all people, perhaps the day after Christmas has you feeling a bit melancholy and having thoughts about the new year. It seems as though it is pretty easy to know what you don't want in the new year, but, perhaps a little more tricky over what you do want.

Your last year (2018) showed you what you chose. Remember back to this time last year. Did you write down your goals or do you still remember what they were? Did you manifest your goals, did some get altered or took a different path? 

Perhaps besides a list of goals why don't you also write a list of what you are going to choose. Our happiness so often can fall into choosing wisely, choosing correctly and thinking enough of ourselves to choose that which builds us up.

Self-empowerment usually comes with a price and that price is making wise decisions, doing the right thing by not only yourself but others as well, being realistic. Somehow, our goals and what we choose can align together and make manifestation easier to manifest.

For example: I choose more happiness in 2019. That statement is too vague. You could rearrange that statement and say: I choose more happiness in my relationships. I choose to be loving, understanding and firm, when need be.

Another example: My goal is to make more money in 2019. Add to this goal what you will choose to manifest this goal. For example: I choose to be persistent and consistent Monday-Friday, I chose to manage my money efficiently. 

They say that our January goalsetting usually only lasts a couple of weeks so perhaps writine down a goal and also a list of what you are going to choose in creating and manifesting that goal you may raise your own awareness to what needs to be done to have your dreams answered.

Since love is such a big and important part of our lives be very clear in what your goal is and what you will choose to manifest it or at the very least do your part. Many people do not or may not realize that once you set a goal, have a dream or whatever you choose you must meet the Universe half way through actions and deeds.

Don't set your goals to be too challenging to meet in 12-months time. Set your goals and what you choose in manageable sizes so that you will experience success quicker. If you are planning a world cruise in twelve months that would be your goal and what you would choose would be to begin a savings program, perhaps lose weight and work out a bit to feel healthy and trim.

In closing, before you work on your goal list and your choosing list. Quietly write down on a piece of paper what you don't want in 2019 - then burn it! Out with the old in with the new. Work everyday on what you are choosing. Become conciously aware and you may find that what you choose could end up being more important then actually setting a goal.

Many blessings to you all in this coming new year of 2019. Thank you so much for the business and the loyalty. I love you all and always hope in my small way I am enrichng your lives.

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Will I Find Love?
Will I Meet My Soulmate?
​Will I Get Married?

Hmmmmm.....are you waiting for "when" or are you being a co-creator with the Universe and putting action into what you are wanting?

Manifestation and what we see happening for you in a psychic reading is the result of the actions or non-actions that you are taking.

You, your actions are 50% of the psychic reading in that the psychic is reading/sensing your energy and what will  happen in your situation or your future

This is just a little nudge that if you keep not getting what you want it is time to take stock and do a review of the actions that you are taking. If you want to meet someone that you have to go where you could meet osmeone or do online dating.

How we all long for things to come easily to us that touch our hearts. Unfortunately, sometimes a blessing will fall down upon us but most of the itme our lives are a result of the actions that we take or don't take.

A Psychic Reading will Guide The Way!
Make it your best year yet and don't give up on your dreams

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